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Guide to BDSM: GLOSSARY

Guide to BDSM: GLOSSARY

Before you dive into the world of BDSM play, it is important to become familiar with all of the terms and some of the bondage accessories that you will encounter. This glossary of terms is intended to help you navigate through your kinky journey with a quick guide to what you need to know.

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  • Politely Prodded: Bondage and BDSM Dungeon Etiquette - Guide to Fetish, a blog by Lux Fetish

    Politely Prodded: Bondage and BDSM Dungeon Etiquette

    So you’ve been invited to a munch and you know that you’re being vetted for a private play party, but the dungeon master just checked you for gawking at a scene without consent and there’s no alcohol to soothe your nerves. What is even happening? Not only are you just barely familiar with those words, but you’ve been there for 10 minutes and you’re already overwhelmed. What are the rules? What do you do? What should you not do? Preparation is key, and we’re here to help. 

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  • March Fetish of the Month: Mirror Play - Guide to Fetish, a blog by Lux Fetish

    March Fetish of the Month: Mirror Play

    Katoptronophilia is a fetish for mirrors, but more specifically, mirrors that are focused on you… while you are doing the nasty to yourself or others. Christian Bale introduced this visual to the world in the movie American Psycho when he eye-f*cked himself as he runs his fingers through his hair, winks, and shoots his finger guns. Pew. I think we can all sigh in relief at this next sentence. Mirror play does not have to be that cringy. In fact, it doesn’t have to be cringy at all. Some of us find that the best way to connect with ourselves is to get familiar with our reflections. Our imperfections, along with the parts we can’t get enough of, make us who we are inside and out, so falling a little bit in love with yourself might be the healthy bit of narcissism we all should employ.
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  • "U Up?" - Guide to The Best Sexting Ever by Lux Fetish

    "U Up?" - Guide to The Best Sexting Ever

    Here’s the thing. You could type out “Hi. Can I sext you?” which directly asks for consent, but doesn’t have enough of the magic that makes it the “best sexting ever”. Just like any other form of flirting, a little verbal cat and mouse goes a long way. For one thing, know who you’re sexting and what they’re doing. Some rando you met on SwipeRight.app might be in the middle doing something that is not sexting friendly. However, that cutie from the bar a coupla months ago that you keep in touch with might be a better choice. If you know she has lunch with her grandma every Sunday, maybe that’s not the right time. We don’t kink shame, but she just might not be into reading how you want to make her pussy drip while her grandmother describes the last mammogram she endured. All that to say, timing is everything and that’s hard to gauge when you don’t know who you’re dealing with.

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  • Tossing the Salad: Everything you need to know about Rimming - Guide to Glass by Gläs

    Tossing the Salad: Everything you need to know about Rimming

    Rimming, tossing the salad, biting the peach, or whichever other term you want to use for a good ole ass munching is the colloquial vocabulary for analingus or oral sex performed on the anus. Contrary to the “eating” heavy imagery of the terms, rimming is more focused on the licking aspect, giving external stimulation to the perianal area. This usually involves (but by no means is limited to) circling the booty hole using the tongue with the occasional dip into your southern gorge of glee.

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  • February Fetish of the Month: Feet - Lux Fetish Blog

    February Fetish of the Month: Feet

    A foot fetish is when feet turn you on and you find release (read: pleasure) in feet. That can play out in a number of ways. Some people like the feet themselves, while others like adornments like jewelry, pantyhose, shoes, or toenail polish. There are foot fetishists that get into the scented aroma of le feet. They like how feet smell after a long day of squishing around in shoes. Some even like the smell of socks worn day after day, or gym shoes. Foot kinksters sometimes get off on the sensory play from rubbing or tickling feet. This can also include rubbing genitals on feet. Even those without a foot fetish, in particular, have sucked a toe or two, or had it done. Because let’s be honest: feet are sexy.

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  • Kink-a Sutra: Adding BDSM to your Kama Sutra Play - Guide to Fetish by Lux Fetish

    Kink-a Sutra: Adding BDSM to your Kama Sutra Play

    You’ve tried the rest, now try the best. That’s essentially what everyone who has read the Kama Sutra says about their sex skills, but even the most adventurous of kinksters can up the ante no matter how far over the ledge they think they’ve gone. And let’s be honest, most of us have NOT read the Kama Sutra and some of us aren’t exactly sure of what it is. What we do know, collectively, whether we’ve perused the document or not, is that it has a lot of freaky sex positions.
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  • What is the Porn Star Experience? - Guide to Fetish by Lux Fetish

    What is the Porn Star Experience?

    What’s your fantasy? No, really. What is that thing that you want to try, but you’re having a hard time finding someone who’s game? No matter how kinky, slutty, or downright nasty it might be for general society, to YOU it seems interesting or even desirable, and you want IN. Well, that’s where the Porn Star Experience comes in. Your dreams can come true, and there is a way to make your fantasy a reality, even if you have to make a few concessions.

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  • Kinky Holiday Gift Guide 2021 - Guides to Fetish by Lux Fetish

    Sexy Christmas Gifts - Sex Toys, Bondage, Vibrators, Dildos

    It’s that time of year again! Where you get a little trim all over your house and you’re bursting with excitement about the season of giving. If you’re really lucky, you’re surrounded by lots of ho ho ho’s in your life. To help you get the most from your holiday season, we’ve made you a kinky gift guide to help make you merry. Happy holidays to all, and to all a very VERY good night!

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  • Lesbian Bondage and BDSM - WLW BDSM - a blog by Lux Fetish

    Lesbian Bondage and BDSM - WLW BDSM

    The only thing hotter than seeing your girlfriend splayed out in ecstasy pre-\ or post nut is perhaps seeing her in the exact opposite position: tied up, ball gagged, and with a beautiful handprint strategically placed. For WLW (women loving women), BDSM can be what makes her cat meow… but only after you give permission.

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  • Make a Moan-er Lisa - Taking the Perfect Dick Pic - Guide to Fetish by Lux Fetish

    Make a Moan-er Lisa - Taking the Perfect Dick Pic

    From Michelangelo's David to "young_n_hung69🍆💦" on Grindr, a penis can stay ingrained in the mind forever, and making sure yours is exhibited in the best light, background, and state will ensure a positive perception of your pecker for potential pick-ups. This guide will ensure your dick is documented so well that David Attenborough would want to narrate it. 
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