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How to use our over the door sex swing: Lux Fetish Door Slam Love Sex Swing

11 Sex Swing Positions & How To Use One

Who needs gravity when you can literally swing your way into your next orgasm using an over the door sex swing? Our Door Slam Love Sex Swing allows you to please or be pleased in many positions that are physically impossible on a bed or chair. This over the door sex swing is made of polyester and acrylic, designed for the most imaginative of kinksters.

How to use our over the door sex swing: Lux Fetish Door Slam Love Sex Swing

How to Install

To install an over the door sex swing, place the bars over the door so that the bars are hanging over to door to the outside. The swing itself is secured by the door frame. Make sure it’s a solid, sturdy door and not a hollow one. Close and lock the door for safety and privacy to put the final touches on a quick installation.

An over the door sex swing can be intimidating; they may look like a torture device but, unfortunately for some us, they aren’t. Although There are a lot of parts, the Door Slam Love Sex Swing is simply made and easy to install. For safety purposes, always check to make sure all the pieces are available and in working order. Another thing to consider is the weight limit of the over the door sex swing. Make sure your over the door sex swing can handle the pressure of you and your partner, or at the very least, one of you. Finally, read the instructions. Figure out what part goes where, and what it can or cannot do. Learn how to mount and dismount properly. Otherwise, you may end up on the floor or stuck in the air without your consent.

How to use our over the door sex swing: Lux Fetish Door Slam Love Sex Swing

Getting Started

Playing with an over the door sex swing allows for all kinds of fun positions. Start by stepping into the harness so that your thighs are in the straps, putting you in a sitting position facing away from the door. This gives great access to the person being penetrated. Alternatively, the person doing the penetrating can sit in the swing and have their partner slide back onto them. You can also turn around so that you are in the same position, but your feet are on the door. This gives your leverage to control depth and pacing with your partner. Take it a step further by throwing one or both of your legs over your partners’ shoulders.

 

Reclining Missionary Position

Have the bottom (person being penetrated) lay back in the swing and grip the straps for support. From there, the top (penetrating partner) can scootch up and penetrate. They can grab onto the straps for additional support and to help stabilize the swing (so it doesn't move around so much).

 

Doggy Style For Ass Lovers

Have the bottom lay face down in the swing. They put one strap around their chest and the other around their belly for support. If your swing also has stirrups, strap those legs in, too. From there, the top can enter from behind.

Lying on your Back

The bottom lies down on the swing on their back, placing one strap behind their mid-back and the other behind their booty. Then they place their legs atop the penetrating partner's shoulders.

 

The Gynecologist 

The exact details of this position will vary depending on how close the swing is to the ground. But in general, one person sits in the swing and the other person either lies down or kneels underneath their partner and performs oral sex.

Cowgirl Position

The penetrating partner sits back in the swing and their partner straddles them in cowgirl position. The person doing the straddling should hold onto the straps for support as they move their body.

 

Air Swinging 69

One partner lays back in the swing, so the straps are around their back, lower butt, and heels. The second partner, with their legs firmly planted on the floor, bends over. Then bam, you two start going to town on each other!

 

Chow Time

One partner straps in their legs and arms and leans back. The other gets on their knees for chow time. 

 

The Cowboy

If you are feeling REALLY adventurous, use the straps of the over the door sex swing as foot anchors. In this position you can have your back against the door, holding on to the upper straps to brace yourself. This is a perfect position to receive oral sex. Turn around and it becomes the best position for rimming. Because your feet are in the straps, you can stand OR straddle. Having your partner sit in a chair while you cowboy makes this position enticing for all penetrative sex.

The Wheelbarrow

Another position you can try is a wheelbarrow. You’ll likely need your partner’s help to get into this one. By putting your legs through the straps so that your belly is parallel to the floor and the bottoms of your feet are turned up, you are in a great position for doggystyle allowing your partner to enter you from behind. Remember to have your partner hold your hands out to the side to help support your weight.

Equalize your Intercourse

The best thing about over the door sex swings is that they can act as the great equalizer. They allow partners to try positions that may have been just out of reach due to height, weight, strength, or general ability limitations. Sex swings make some of the more strenuous positions more accessible by relieving the pressure on the joints and muscles. All it takes are a few adjustments to the straps. This means that even though over the door sex swings are falsely perceived as dangerous, they provide a safer route to kinkier sex for many couples.

Whether you are just getting into kink or looking to add a little razzle dazzle to your sex life, an over the door sex swing can add several new layers of pleasure to your play. A few new positions here and there and soon, you’ll be swinging and flipping around like a pro. One of the best kept secrets about over the door sex swings is that they are incredibly affordable, and the Door Slam Love Sex Swing is one of the most versatile on the market, perfect for beginners! Remember to follow the instructions and be thorough about safety checks. Sex swings are for everyone. There’s no reason to be intimidated and EVERY reason to strap up!

How to use our over the door sex swing: Lux Fetish Door Slam Love Sex Swing

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