The Ultimate Guide to Ball Gag Bondage Play

Ball gag bondage play can be an exciting intimate experience to try with a partner. Bondage enthusiasts know that ball gags are one of the ultimate accessories to dominate a submissive. BDSM newbies, and even vanilla couples alike, can all enjoy ball gag bondage play because it’s easier (and not as intimidating) than you think.

In just about any typical BDSM scene, you’re also certain to see a submissive sporting a ball gag. The reason why ball gags are so popular to bondage play might be obvious to some — they are the perfect way of dominating a submissive. With a ball gag in your submissive’s mouth, the only sounds they’ll be able to make will be muffled while you explore stimulation from other bondage play favorite like whips, paddles and restraints.

Ball gag bondage play doesn’t have to be an intense BDSM experience either, if you don’t want to. Ball gags can also be used during role-playing and more sensual experiences with a partner.

Check out this guide to ball gags to find out the best option for you and how you can start exploring the pleasure of ball gag bondage play.

What is a ball gag?

As previously mentioned, a ball gag is somewhat self-explanatory. This BDSM accessory consists of a ball that is worn in the mouth and a strap that secures it in place. There are different types of ball gags, with some styles being more beginners-friendly and others that are intended for more expert-level players.

When choosing a ball gag it’s important to consider the size of the ball. First-time users should ideally use smaller sized balls, and certain ball gags will have a breathable design that can serve as a great intro for ball gag bondage play newbies.

Beginners-friendly ball gags usually feature adjustable straps that are easier to attach and remove, in case the bondage action gets to intense. As one becomes more experienced with ball gag bondage play, then a better quality, more durable ball gag might be preferred. Ball gags that are made for more expert-level play typically are made from tougher material and are secured in place by hardware. As users become more advanced at their ball gag bondage play, they might feel comfortable to size up to bigger balls to intensify the kinky experience.

Why use a ball gag?

Ball gags are perfect for BDSM because it provides a visual representation of who's the domme and who's the submissive. When the submissive is wearing the ball gag, they are restricted from speaking, which will intensify the experience for both the ball gag wearer (the submissive) and the dominant who gets to enjoy seeing their sexy slave wanting to verbally react to the stimulation but being prevented from doing so.

It's important to know that you and your partner can control exactly how intense the ball gag bondage play gets, so keep in mind that it's for fun; and if you're a beginner, you should opt for smaller and/or breathable ball gags. This type of bondage accessory isn't only a classic item, it's also considered to be more on the beginners-friendly side.

How to use a ball gag safely?

Although there is no shortage of beginners-friendly ball gags, such as the breathable type, it's important to approach the accessory mindfully. You should avoid limiting you or your partner's ability to breathe for long periods of time. It is recommended that ball gag wearers not wear one for more than 20 minutes at a time. Additionally, in order to avoid pain in the jaw, you’ll also want to avoid wearing balls gags for excessive periods of time.

For first-timers, it's recommended to start will ball gags that are smaller in size and that have easily adjustable straps. This will prevent pain from maintaining an open mouth for too long and may make it easier to breathe. Ideally you should try to find a ball gag that best fits your size mouth, however that may time a little time to discover the perfect one for you.

Types of Lux Fetish Ball Gags

Lux Fetish has you covered, no matter what level of ball gag bondage play experience you have. Because Lux Fetish specializes in all things bondage — ranging from introductory items for bondage play beginners to expert-level gear, you're sure to find your perfect match.

For beginners, Lux Fetish offers breathable ball bags in erotic black and red colors in user-friendly sizes, we also have a silicone ball gag. Another option for ball gag bondage play enthusiasts are open mouth ball gags. Consisting of a ring that sits in the opening of your submissive's mouth, open mouth ball gags work the same way, however leave the mouth gaping open for more types of fun.

If you're looking to add extra thrills to your ball gag bondage play, try Lux Fetish's Breathable Ball Gag With Nipple Clamp Chains. This enhanced version of your basic breathable ball gag includes nipple clamps attached that dangle and clamp onto the nipples. The sexy options for ball gag bondage play are endless!